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Are Past Experiences Keeping You From Being The Parent You Want To Be?

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Discover The Essential Insights And Skills To Turn Emotional Wounds Into Parenting Wisdom

It's easy to feel overwhelmed by the impact of past traumas on our ability to raise our children. Like we don’t know where to start.

So many of us want to avoid repeating our parents’ mistakes, to ensure that our children don’t bear the same wounds we do.

We long to break free from the patterns of our past, but often feel stuck and unsure of how to change.

That's why I'm so thrilled you're here today…

Parenting Is More Than Just Imparting Skills
​Or Finding Ways To Get Your Kids To Comply…

You want your children to have a better childhood than you did. You wish for them to feel loved, valued, and safe.

But often, our unresolved hurts and traumas get in the way of the relationship we want with our kids.

We find ourselves…

  • Losing our temper
  • Spinning with anxiety
  • Shutting down
  • …or repeating the very patterns we despise

Perhaps you've experienced this, too.

Those moments where your own frustrations or past hurts cloud your ability to be the parent you want to be.

Maybe, despite your best efforts, you’re not as present, patient, or understanding as you'd like to be.

Or you’ve tried conventional parenting techniques but you’re still coming up short or keep running into the same roadblocks.

It feels like you're constantly at war with yourself, wanting to do better but never really knowing how.

The good news: there is a way forward.

It starts with understanding that healing yourself is the first step to becoming the parent you aspire to be.

It’s knowing how to access your own internal wisdom then transition this into actionable steps that improve your family life and your bond with your kids.

We recently brought together some of the best experts on the subject to record a transformative NEW workshop we’re calling…

The Parenting Workshop

This workshop is designed for parents like you – who want to deepen their understanding of themselves to foster healthier, more nurturing relationships with their children.

We explore…

  • Common stumbling blocks parents encounter when trying to break free from the patterns of their past (And how to turn old wounds into new parenting insights instead)
  • Practical insights on how to recognize when past experiences are influencing your reactions (So you can identify and break the cycle of generational trauma)
  • How to redirect these emotions towards a more compassionate and empathetic space -- without the usual guilt, overcompensation, or denial (Turn frustration and shame into actionable steps towards mindful parenting)

This isn't just about learning skills and techniques for effective parenting.

Instead, it’s turning the lens inwards to understand how your unique personal history can be a powerful tool in forging your own parenting path.

And that's not all…

With a distinguished team of experts that includes…

  • Dr. Frank Anderson - Harvard trained, renowned trauma expert
  • Dr. Nicole LePera - #1 NY Times bestselling author, creator of The Holistic Psychologist
  • Jenna Weakland - Co-Founder of SelfHealer’s Circle, expert in natural healing and soul alignment
  • Matthias J. Barker - Psychotherapist and Trauma Specialist

The Parenting Workshop is inspired by the latest research in psychology, decades of therapeutic experience, and real-world parenting wisdom.

It’s free of jargon, engaging, and designed to equip you with practical strategies you can immediately implement.

You’ll unearth fresh approaches to nurture understanding and empathy in your family dynamics.

And gain a simple process for asking for forgiveness (and learning from your kids) in ways that allow you to better connect with them.

To help you decide if it’s for you…

Here’s A Small Sample Of Topics Included:

  • A practical apology method for transforming regrets into bridges of understanding with your family members
  • How to leverage what you've been through for insight into how you're going to raise your own kids
  • A hidden truth in parenting you can use to turn mistakes into teachable moments, creating a safe space for growth
  • Why the strategies we commonly use to address past hurts leave us MORE disconnected from ourselves and our children
  • How to facilitate repair in your relationship with children of all ages and establish a new foundation of trust
  • Three words to instantly diffuse anger, fear, or worry - like having a safety switch to prevent from losing your cool
  • How to recognize when past experiences are influencing your in-the-moment reactions and access the wisdom to change
  • A simple question to ask to increase your self-awareness in parenting situations, so you can identify triggers and diffuse conflicts before they happen
  • The critical importance of physical self-care and how it sets you up for grounded, responsive parenting, leading to more calm and stability in your family life
  • A 4-word mantra for significantly enhancing the quality of your interactions with your kids
  • How to use Dr. Frank’s “losing it agreement” to be more compassionate in tense moments - deepening the emotional bond with your child
  • A common mistake that inadvertently instills in your children a misconstrued understanding of love and attention
  • Matthias’ “needs sandwich" technique for promoting healthier, more open dialogue with your children (or any other significant person in your life)
  • A straightforward 3-step process to tap into your inner-wisdom, alleviate past wounds, and find growth in the experience of parenting
  • And much, much more!

That’s just a taste of the parenting insights covered in this unique workshop.

You’ll uncover vital practical skills to turn wounds into wisdom…

All presented in a format that's digestible and understandable and designed to be easily applied in your everyday parenting life.

These are the same evidence-inspired techniques we use with our clients in private practice.

And since they represent our innovative take on the current models in psychology and parenting - you won’t find this knowledge in your typical parenting books or courses.

So, Here's The Deal:

Our Parenting Workshop is set to retail for $199.

However, if you order as part of this special launch offer, we’ll give INSTANT LIFETIME ACCESS for just $39.

Retail: $199
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​Here are the most frequently asked questions...

Who is this workshop designed for?

This workshop is designed for any parent, regardless of their children's ages. It's particularly for those who feel they're constantly battling their own past or struggling to break away from their own upbringing's influence on their parenting style. If you often find yourself losing your temper, shutting down, or grappling with guilt over your parenting, this workshop could be the key to unlocking a healthier, more fulfilling parenting journey for you.

What can I expect to gain from this workshop?

You can expect to gain a deeper understanding of how your past experiences are influencing your parenting style, along with actionable strategies to transform past hurts into parenting wisdom. The ultimate aim is to equip you with the tools and understanding necessary to foster healthier relationships with your children.

What makes this workshop different from other parenting courses?

Unlike most other parenting courses which focus on enforcing child compliance or explaining developmental processes, this workshop delves into the profound and often overlooked side of parenting - your own internal struggles. It draws a bridge between your childhood experiences and your parenting style, empowering you to break free from harmful cycles and patterns.

How practical is the information shared in the workshop?

This workshop strikes a balance between insight and practicality. While it turns the lens within, it also offers practical steps to transform these insights into actionable parenting wisdom. For example, one of the tools shared in the workshop is a concrete process for repairing relationships and asking for forgiveness from your children.

Does the workshop only focus on parents of young children?

Not at all. The principles and strategies discussed in the workshop are relevant to parents with children of all ages, including teenagers and adult children. The focus is less on age-specific challenges like potty training and more on universally applicable themes like family values, emotional regulation, and communication.

Do I need to have a background in trauma healing to benefit from this workshop?

While those with an interest in trauma healing might find certain aspects of the workshop particularly resonant, no specific background is required. The workshop is designed to be accessible and beneficial for any parent who's keen to understand and address the impact of their past on their parenting.

What is the “practical apology method” that is mentioned?

The "practical apology method" is a process we teach in the workshop to help parents build repair and reconciliation with their children. It offers guidance on how to engage in meaningful conversations with your children after a conflict, taking ownership of your actions, and making amends, thereby fostering healthier and more open relationships.

Will this workshop help me if I am a single parent or if I’m in a tumultuous marriage?

Absolutely. The workshop offers insights and tools to help you navigate the specific challenges and stresses of being a single parent or dealing with a tumultuous marriage. The focus is on improving your relationship with your children, regardless of your familial or marital situation.

What parenting values underpin this workshop?

This workshop is rooted in authenticity, vulnerability, and understanding. It aims to create a safe and non-judgmental space where you can explore the connection between your past experiences and your parenting style and feel seen and understood in your struggles.

What parenting values underpin this workshop?

This workshop is rooted in authenticity, vulnerability, and understanding. It aims to create a safe and non-judgmental space where you can explore the connection between your past experiences and your parenting style and feel seen and understood in your struggles.

Is this workshop only for parents who feel like they're struggling?

No. This workshop is for any parent or caregiver that’s looking to break the cycle or develop a better relationship with their children. Parenting is a continuous journey of learning and growth, and even those who feel they're doing well can find new wisdom and strategies to enrich their parenting style.

Meet Matthias Barker

Matthias Barker is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC), specializing in the treatment of complex trauma, childhood abuse, and marital issues. He holds a Master's Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Northwest University.

Matthias is widely recognized for his unique approach to making mental health knowledge and skills accessible to the wider public. Matthias deliverspsychoeducational content to a following of over 5 million people. His innovative blend of engaging content and relevant mental health advice has fostered a vibrant online community centered on healing, personal growth, and moving toward meaning in the midst of hardship.

Meet Frank Anderson

I am an author, psychiatrist, therapist, speaker, and trauma specialist who’s spent the past three decades studying neuroscience and trauma treatment. My mission is to heal trauma and bring more love, compassion, and unity to the world.

I began my professional journey as a chemistry major at the University of Illinois in the pre-pharmacy program. I switched to psychiatry after a close family member of mine developed significant mental health symptoms. During my residency in psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, I noticed that many of my clients struggling with major mental illnesses had also experienced significant trauma in their lives.

The pain I witnessed in others activated something deep within me, compelling me to enter therapy, which quickly connected me to my own trauma history.

Becoming a psychiatrist at the Trauma Center in Boston under the direction of Bessel van der Kolk was the next right step for me. I was able to learn more about trauma while simultaneously continuing my quest of helping others heal. I was fortunate enough to meet Dick Schwartz at a conference and my career focus instantly came into full alignment. I was now able to integrate my knowledge of neuroscience and trauma treatment with Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy.

I was the former chair and executive director of the Foundation for Self Leadership, an organization focusing on IFS research and the expansion of the IFS model beyond psychotherapy, and authored the chapter “Who’s Taking What? Connecting Neuroscience, Psychopharmacology, and Internal Family Systems for Trauma.” Never really thinking of myself as an author, I surprisingly felt drawn to coauthor the chapter “What IFS Brings to the Treatment of Trauma,” and the book Internal Family Systems Skills Training Manual. My most recent book, Transcending Trauma is the culmination of my professional and personal journey to date. I am extremely proud of it!

I’m also a lead trainer and consultant for the IFS Institute, an advisor to the International Association of Trauma Professionals (IATP), and maintain a private practice. I am passionate about teaching, and enjoy providing therapy consultations and trauma-informed IFS-related workshops throughout the world.

Meet Dr. Nicole LePera

Dr. Nicole LePera is the author of the #1 New York Times Bestselling Book "How To Do The Work” and the recently released Bestselling “How to Meet Your Self” Workbook. She is the creator of the #SelfHealers movement and founded SelfHealers Circle, the first virtual self-guided healing membership where members in over 100 countries are joining together to heal in community. She is the host of the weekly ad-free podcast “SelfHealers Soundboard” with over 5 million downloads.

Meet Jenna Weakland

After transcending the storms of childhood abuse, poverty, abandonment, homelessness, addiction, violence and neglect; Jenna made it her mission to become a beacon of hope, resilience and healing to others.

She has spent her life learning and observing, teaching herself and others how to not only overcome and heal from deep depression and adversity, but to find the divine wisdom, purpose and meaning waiting to be learned from each and every one of our experiences, including—and especially—the ones rooted in grief and trauma.

Jenna co-founded the SelfHealers Circle—the first virtual self-guided healing membership where members from over 160 countries are joining together to heal in community. She hosts the weekly ad-free podcast “SelfHealers Soundboard” with over 5 million downloads.

Her life’s work in childhood development and education, pediatric and adult oncology, integrative nutrition and holistic health, spiritual growth and community service, combined with her own personal journey, has made Jenna into someone who deeply understands and knows how to help guide and heal people from the inside out. She is here to provide inspiration and guidance in helping others become their most authentic and heart-led self. She is grateful to be here for all of it!

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